Patricia Mary McClary

November 02, 1944 - September 06, 2024

Obituary For Patricia Mary McClary

Patricia Mary McClary (née Flinn), born on November 2, 1944, in Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada, passed away on September 6, 2024, in Raleigh, NC, at the age of 79. Patricia was a beacon of love and warmth, characterized by her loving, kind, generous, fierce, brave, and sunny personality.

Patricia grew up in Cambridge, MA, before raising her family in Merrimack, NH. She dedicated over 30 years to a fulfilling career in banking and her commitment to her work was paralleled by her devotion to her faith. She retired to Raleigh, NC in 2007 where she met many new wonderful friends.

Beyond her professional and spiritual life, Patricia had a passion for traveling, volunteering, spending time with family and friends, and baking, which brought joy not only to her but also to those who were lucky enough to experience her culinary creations.

She leaves behind a legacy of love and cherished memories with her son Paul McClary, 2 daughters and sons-in-law Kathleen & Lazaro Aguilar, and Kelley & Scott Gay; her grandchildren, Bailey, Nathanial, Cooper, & Sarah; and her siblings, Gerri Byrnes, Kevin Flinn, & Briant Flinn. Patricia was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Ernest McClary, and her parents, Patrick and Margaret Flinn.

Patricia's life was a testament to her enduring spirit and the deep connections she fostered throughout her years. She will be profoundly missed by all who knew her.

Services

10 Sep

Funeral Mass

10:00 AM

St. Raphael the Archangel Catholic Church 5801 Falls of Neuse Rd. Raleigh, NC 27609 Get Directions »

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September 23, 2024

spence laurie

I worked with Patricia at the bank. She was instrumental in helping me chose the seasonal work I love. She gave me the courage to take the steps needed to changing my life for the better.
September 12, 2024

Ruthann Burke

Will miss you dear friend.
September 12, 2024

Ruthann Burke

Pat, my heart is broken, you will be missed. Love you always. Ruthann
September 11, 2024

Janet Probst

She was such a beautiful person inside and out. She will be missed.
September 10, 2024

Richard

Her dazzling smile, positive attitude, and sincere interest in everyone she met was an inspiration and comfort to me in a sometimes chaotic workplace.
September 10, 2024

Mark Aguilar

We always enjoyed seeing Mrs. Patricia when she came to Texas. She always had a kind word for me and my family. I can still see her big smile like it was yesterday. Rest in eternal peace Mrs. Patricia. - Mark, Elsa, & Bethany -
September 09, 2024

Sandra Leonard

Life has been so much more beautiful because Pat was a part of it. She was a blessing to many and bright as Sunshine. We lift her family in prayer to receive comfort and peace. Sandra and Woody Leonard (Women of Cokesbury)
September 09, 2024

Denise Venne

My deepest sympathies to Pat's family. I knew her through my husband when she worked in NH. I've loved to follow her traveling adventures. May she rest in peace. Denise Venne
September 09, 2024

Claire Krzywinski

Dear Paul, Kathy, and Kelley, Your mom is exceptional in my heart. She was my friend, mentor, and the most charismatic person I will ever meet. There isn't a day that goes by that I either remember what she taught me or the symbolic gifts she gave me. I am so sorry that I will not be able to attend the service as I am out of the country. My prayers go out to all of you. Claire Krzywinski
September 09, 2024

Chris Boucher

I'm sending thoughts and prayers to your family! Pat save me a seat. Another guardian angel 😇 💜. Thank you for being a friend.
September 09, 2024

Peggy Koroll

Love you forever ❤️
September 08, 2024

Susan

My sweet friend. Heaven has gained a true Angel. Until we meet again. Susan Lynch