We invite you to discover who has made Renaissance Funeral Home and Crematory the ultimate provider of creating healing experiences in the community. This section contains the heritage, vision, and the people behind Renaissance Funeral Home’s reputation of quality, sincerity, and trust.
With four generations of experience, the Smolenski family has been helping other families provide dignity in death to their loved ones. It all started in 1920 with the Polish American legislator, John Smolenski, of New York.
John and Joseph Smolenski were born in Poland ca. 1880. Their parents, along with John and Joseph, emigrated to the United States shortly thereafter and settled in Greenpoint (Brooklyn) New York. Many Polish immigrants settled there as well.
In approximately 1917, John opened the Smolenski Funeral Home in Greenpoint at the corner of Manhattan Avenue and Freeman Street. At the time it was established there was a large and growing Polish community. They needed a Polish-speaking Funeral Director so Uncle John became one of them and opened a Funeral Home. It was sold in 1956 after John died.
Meanwhile, John’s younger brother, Joseph Anthony Smolenski, first opened a Funeral Home in East New York in Brooklyn. Preferring a more bucolic life for himself and his family he moved out to the country to Hempstead, Long Island, New York. He opened the Hempstead Funeral Home circa 1932. It was sold to the Senko family in 1959 and remains there on Front Street to this day.
Joseph Richard Smolenski, the son of Joseph Anthony Smolenski, opened the New Hyde Park Funeral Home in 1956. It was on the site of the Oszapinski Home and Nursery. It started out as a two-room funeral home attached to the family home. On the other side of the street to the rear, North 9th Place was the growing section for the Nursery. It contained 3 large greenhouses as well as open land to grow on. Some of this land was purchased for a Parking lot for the Funeral Home. At the time, Floral Park and New Hyde Park had large Polish populations. The Smolenski name was well known, so the ethnic draw was natural. The business started out well and picked up speed as New Hyde Park grew. In fact, at times it was necessary to take over the family home, which was attached, to allow for viewing.
The New Hyde Park Funeral design for renovation was for it to emulate a home. The term Funeral Parlor first came about when the funeral in the home was common as it was in the 1950s. Eventually, families decided this was too much of a burden so they began to use our home for the funeral bringing about the term Funeral Home. Joseph R Smolenski, Sr. owned and managed it for many years until he turned over the reins to his son, Joseph R Smolenski, Jr. in 1994. New Hyde Park Funeral Home was sold in 2019 to the McBride family.
Next-generation, Joseph R. Smolenski, III, attended NCSU and after graduation settled in Raleigh. This provided fuel for thought in the decision of Joseph R. Smolenski, Jr. to create Renaissance Funeral Home which opened in 2003 on the site of the defunct North Raleigh Funeral Home. The site is now under the management of Joseph R. Smolenski, III. In 2019, their crematory and tribute center was built on the property.
THE SMOLENSKI FAMILY, Owners
Joseph Smolenski, Jr. began Renaissance Funeral Home in 2003 bringing the renowned service found at the other family funeral home on Long Island, New York called New Hyde Park Funeral Home. In 2008, fourth-generation funeral director, Joseph Smolenski, III, joined his father in the family funeral business. Both father and son are advocates of choice, ceremony, earth-friendly options, and creating a great experience for every family they serve. Renaissance Funeral Home is the first and premier funeral home in Raleigh approved by the Green Burial Council. Serving people of all faiths, denominations, creeds, and cultures, and inclusive of LGBTQ, the Renaissance Funeral Home team is an extension of the Smolenski family. In unison, they make certain every family served feels understood, respected, and the warmth of care.
“Dear Joe, Thank you so much for all of your care and guidance through a difficult time. Some people work with their hands, and others with their hearts- you blessed us with both. We know that you went the ‘extra mile’ for us; and for that we are very grateful.” -Deane & Jan T.
MARK BARNES, Generous / Compassionate / Funeral Director
Mark has been involved in funeral service since 1994. He is a graduate of Gupton-Jones College of Mortuary Science in Atlanta,GA, and a member of Pi Sigma ETA National Mortuary Fraternity. He resides in Raleigh. Mark’s greatest reason for becoming a funeral director was the ability to connect with people during these challenging life events with his calm and compassionate demeanor. Mark has four children and three grandchildren. Mark enjoys good food, cooking, baking, planting, and gardening.
“During the time I was Making arrangements following the death of my husband, I dealt with Mark Barnes. He was very professional, very caring and compassionate and had patience to help me make the decisions that needed to be made, I will always appreciate the help and advice that he gave to me. He is a true professional and a credit to the Renaissance Funeral Home staff” – Jane G
HEATHER HILL, Compassionate / Thorough / Funeral Director
Heather is a mother to three children. Her experience in marketing and website design has helped her become very well rounded in the modern business economy. Heather works from her heart and is very compassionate to the families she serves.
“Our experience with Renaissance Funeral Home was on-point, in all aspects. My family worked with Heather Hill, who was genuine and sincere and worked to ensure that everything went smoothly. She was consistently professional and courteous, while still earnestly compassionate for our family. Our questions were answered directly, and her assistance in navigating the veteran aspect of the service was excellent. I would strongly recommend Renaissance Funeral Home to anyone having to work through this difficult process.” Phillip G.
COLLETTE MEADOR, Caring / Helpful/ Family Services Coordinator
Collette Meador, Family Services Coordinator, assists the funeral directors with families who have experienced a loss. She appreciates the sense of community that is part of her position. She values family, diversity, and volunteerism. Collette is married and has two children. In her free time, she enjoys cooking and baking, reading, watching tv, volunteering at her children’s school, and spending time with her friends. Collette was born and raised in Kansas. She has a Masters of Science degree in Family Studies and Human Services from Kansas State University.
AMIE SEXTON, Empathetic / Intuitive / Apprentice
Amie is currently enrolled in the Funeral Service Program at Fayetteville Technical Community College and is serving her apprenticeship at Renaissance Funeral Home. She appreciates the opportunity to connect with families and considers it an honor to walk with them through such difficult circumstances.
KIMBERLY REX, Efficient / Energetic / Funeral Assistant
Kimberly is a great asset to Renaissance. She is always available to help wherever needed. She helps us obtain the doctor’s signatures, set up for events, and assist with funerals. She is talented in all areas of funeral service.
Kimberly is from Canton, Ohio, and is an athletic person who loves coaching, playing, and challenging herself to try new things.
LEE WHITE, Compassionate / Kind / Funeral Assistant
Lee grew up in Asheville, North Carolina. He is a graduate of The Asheville School and UNC-Greensboro where he earned a degree in English. Lee is a retired state employee where he served as a State Human Resources Consultant for 32 years. During high school and college, he worked part-time with a florist and a funeral home. With those experiences and after the death of his daughter in 2018, Lee felt called to be in a place where he could help others deal with the loss of a family member or close friend.
DEBRA MITCHELL, Professional / Dedicated/ Funeral Assistant
Debra is a Raleigh Native. She graduated from Appalachian State University with a degree in Business Administration. After working for a nursing home in Raleigh for nearly 34 years, she decided to take time off and then return to work part-time. She now works part-time at a local non-profit as well as helping us out as needed as a Funeral Assistant. Debra and her husband Jim love to cycle, hike, run, and love the outdoors. On their bucket list is to visit every US National Park.