Planning Ahead When Someone Is in Hospice Care

If someone you care about is receiving hospice care or nearing the end of life, you do not have to wait until a death occurs to begin asking questions or making plans.

Planning ahead can mean many things. You may be making decisions for yourself, helping a parent, or preparing because someone’s health has changed.

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Why Plan Ahead?

Planning ahead can give you time to make decisions thoughtfully,

  • Choose a funeral home ahead of time. Let hospice, the hospital, or the care facility know who should be called when a death occurs.
  • Gather important information. Having names, dates, family contacts, and other details together can make the next steps easier.
  • Talk through burial or cremation wishes. You do not have to decide everything, but knowing the general direction can be helpful.
  • Ask questions before there is an urgent need. Learn what happens next, what choices may come up, and what your family can expect.
  • Make personal wishes known. Share any traditions, service preferences, music, clothing, or other details that matter
  • Know who to call. Having a funeral home chosen means there is already someone ready to guide the family when the time comes.

Let Hospice Know You’ve Chosen Renaissancehospice planning

If you’ve decided you would like Renaissance to care for you or your family member, let the hospice provider, hospital, or care facility know. They can add our information to the care plan so they know who to call when a death occurs.

Choosing a funeral home ahead of time does not mean everything has to be planned. It simply means that when the time comes, there is already a clear next step and a funeral director ready to help.

You do not need to have everything figured out before you begin.

PLANNING AHEAD

Let's gather the information we'll need.

This is preliminary information to help us get started. Complete as much or as little as you'd like. If you don't know an answer, leave it blank and you can add it later. We'll review and verify everything with you before it is used for final arrangements or records.

Has a death occurred? Please call Renaissance at 919-866-1866 first. This worksheet can help gather information, but it does not replace the initial phone call.
Step 1 of 6 Getting Started
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First, tell us a little about you.

This is the person completing the planning information.

Where are you in the journey?
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What are you thinking about?

Choose as many as you're considering. You don't need to have made a decision yet.

What are you planning for? (choose all that apply)
Who are you planning for?
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About the person we're planning for.

These are the basic details a funeral home will eventually need. Leave anything you don't know blank.

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A few more details.

Some of these questions may feel oddly specific. They're information commonly needed for records later.

Hispanic or Latino?
Has this person served in the U.S. Armed Forces?
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Who should we work with?

This can be the person filling this out, or someone else who should be our primary contact or informant.

This is just a starting point. If something is missing or uncertain, that's okay. You can add information later, and Renaissance will review and verify the details with you.
A note about privacy: This worksheet does not ask for a Social Security number. Please provide highly sensitive information directly to your funeral director rather than entering it here.
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Take a look before you finish.

Nothing has to be perfect. You can go back and change anything, or leave unanswered items for later.

What would you like to do with your planning information?

You can send the information directly to Renaissance, print a clean copy, save it as a PDF, or prepare an email copy for yourself.

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Questions Families Often Ask About Planning Ahead

Do we need to choose a funeral home before a death occurs?

No, but choosing one ahead of time can make things easier later. You can let the hospice provider, hospital, or care facility know which funeral home you want called when the time comes.

Do we have to make all of the funeral decisions now?

No. You can simply choose a funeral home and gather some basic information. Other decisions can be made later, and we can help you work through them when you are ready.

 

Can we meet with a funeral director before a death occurs?

Yes. You can talk with us ahead of time, ask questions, discuss options, and begin gathering information without making every decision. If you'd like to make an appointment and meet with us, just let us know.

What information is helpful to gather now?

Basic personal information, family contacts, military service, cemetery information if applicable, and any known wishes about burial, cremation, aquamation, or services can all be helpful.

Should we tell hospice that we have chosen Renaissance

Yes. Letting the hospice provider or care facility know ahead of time gives them clear instructions about who to contact when a death occurs.

What happens when the death occurs?

Hospice or the care facility will usually confirm the death and contact the funeral home you have chosen. Renaissance will then guide the family through the next steps.

Can we start planning even if hospice has just begun?

Yes. There is no “right” time to begin. Some families want to talk early, while others prefer to wait. You can reach out whenever it feels helpful.

We're Here When You're Ready

Whether you need guidance now or are planning ahead, we're here to listen and help you take the next step