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Scott Alexander Harmer

June 24, 1959 - December 07, 2024

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Obituary For Scott Alexander Harmer

Scott A. Harmer passed away on December 7, 2024 after a fighting battle with ALS (Lou Gehrig’s disease). He was born in Charleston, WV on June 24th, 1959, and was preceded in death by his parents, James A. Harmer and Betty Repass Harmer. He is survived by his wife of 37 years, Ann Barnes Harmer, four daughters, Caroline Newman (Ryan) of Raleigh, NC, Elizabeth Matthews (Charlie) of Knightdale, NC, Emily Childers (Miles) of Tallahassee, FL and Page Timms (Ricky) of Raleigh, NC. He was blessed by the arrival of five grandchildren, Mary-Norris, Sutton, Hardin, Gibbons and William. He also leaves behind his twin sister, Sarah Harmer Kingery (Joe) and nephew Ben, an Uncle, Dr. John Thomas and five cousins.

Scott graduated from Bridgeport High School in Bridgeport, WV and West Virginia University in 1982. There, he was a member of Beta Theta Pi fraternity, and elected by the WVU student body to the Board of Directors.

After working for the American Tobacco Company in Durham, NC, he proudly spent a 29 year career in sales at UPS, representing the company throughout the US.

Over the years, many people knew Scott by simply calling him “Harmer”. It took Scott 30 years to return to his favorite place, that being West Virginia. He and Ann bought property on a trout stream and developed many great friendships in the community of Richwood. “Camp Harmer” was always the happy place and served them well. There were two things that everyone who knew Scott understood: His love of the West Virginia Mountaineers and his conservative yet compassionate positions on politics. He also liked bluegrass music, Turkey hunting, trout fishing and prior to health problems a good tennis player and a “duffer” of the great game of golf. Scott enjoyed motorcycles for most of his life and was a member of the loosely defined motorcycle group called the Wakefield Wild Hogs.

He was a long time member of Edenton Street United Methodist Church in Raleigh, NC. Scott and his wife Ann left the church temporarily in order to help start Wakefield UMC in 2007. Seeing Gods hands work in that church was a true blessing to witness.

A memorial service is being planned for January. We will provide this information as soon as arrangements have been finalized.

In lieu of flowers donations can be made to ALS Therapy Development Institute.

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  • December 12, 2024

    It is really hard to type RIP to Mr. Scott. A man with big heart and a beautiful soul. You always welcomed me with a smile and it never felt like work it felt like home. One great thing about you is that you remained grateful even at your lowest 🙏 Eternal rest grant unto Scott Oooh Lord and let the perpetual light shine upon. May he rest in peace Amen 🙏 ❤️

  • December 11, 2024

    We knew Scott as our Next door neighbor in the early 80s. A nicer guy there never was. Scott and his twin sister, Sarah, were part of a wonderful family. We are most saddened to learn of Scott's passing and are sending condolences to all who loved him. John & Karen Byrnes

  • December 10, 2024

    What a gentle soul. Scott will be missed. He always had a smile for others and kind words to share. -Phil H

  • December 10, 2024

    We lost a GREAT man! You will be missed Scott but never forgotten! BP

  • December 10, 2024

    Wonderful husband,wonderful father,wonderful grandfather and such a wonderful friend,big brother you will be missed but never forgotten,we have many memories and will see each other again to relive all the memories we made,rest in peace

  • December 10, 2024

    Scott was a good friend and mentor to me. Even bedridden he was encouraging and guiding me along. I am a better person for having him in my life. Most importantly, I am thankful for his relationship with the Lord. I know he is at peace in a place far more beautiful than earth. This is not goodbye. This is I'll see you later! Can't wait to see those pearly white in Heaven! -Holly Willard

  • December 09, 2024

    I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of Scott. I met Scott through working at UPS. He was a great guy and always had something nice to say and a smile on his face. My thoughts and prayers are with all his family during this sad time. Psalm 34:18 "The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." Teresa Holden/UPS Retiree

  • December 09, 2024

    Scott was a great man and friend! His smile was infectious and always had one on his face when I saw him. Prayers for his family and friends who loved him dearly! Thankful I know I will see him again one day!

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