We are sorry for you loss. The only consolation I can offer is that he grew up on a home with such wonderful parents.

Barbara and Peter, My thoughts and my prayers are with you both and your family. I am so sad for you all, especially for Kurt's little daughter. I have so many fond memories of Kurt and I will keep them in my heart.

I was a friend of Kurt's from many years ago....he was such a wonderful friend....always super kind and always willing to laugh and joke around. If I was down, Kurt would work hard to cheer me up...I will never forget him! I really regret having lost touch with him over the past several years. He will be dearly missed by many! I am very sorry for your loss...God bless your family...you will certainly be in our thoughts and prayers.

Kurt was a great friend to those who spent time with him. Many great memories from High School with him. I'll always remember his smile and kind heart. Praying for peace for Barbara and Peter and his beautiful daughter.

I have two favorite memories, one of a beautiful red head little guy on the playground at Emerson Park and the proud and happy dad with his own little red head. Rest in peace sweet boy

From his likening rolls of hay in the fields to Mr. Snuffleupagus, to his hosting our trip to visit when Peter was hospitalized, Kurt always had such humor and spirit. My heart breaks for him, and my love goes out to my brother Peter and dear Barbara. Nadia is a marvelous little girl and a fond reminder of Kurt.

We, the redheaded cousins, had too little time together, Kurt. Though I remember fondly our first trip to visit you in Raleigh and lighting sparklers in the backyard, I was always too young for and usually but a spectator and wannabe tag-along to your merry mischief-making with our older siblings. How I wish we could sit together now and watch our children play like we all once did. I am brokenhearted that you are gone but delighted to know that another little redhead, undoubtedly brilliant and witty and genuinely kind because she's yours, will grow up knowing the love of our wonderful family and the father she lost too soon. We will miss you.

As my heart breaks for Barbara and Peter and Nadia so grows my resolve to share my affection for my dear cousin and the stories of camping and fishing and car rides and purple cow milkshakes and "sledding" down a cornfield so slowly we could have run faster... with his beloved Nadia. My love and sympathy...

My heart and mind are with my aunt, uncle, cousin Jeff and his beautiful family, and precious Nadia. Kurt has a unique and wonderful spirit that will be missed so greatly. His clever mind, sensitive heart, and big smile were so endearing. Getting to meet the beautiful Nadia recently was such a joy, what a wonderful little person. She will always carry with her the fun-loving spirit and the love of her father.

To the Shafer family, A special person always leaves a footprint in your heart and nothing, not even death, can ever take those precious memories away. Hold tight to the memories of KurtLean on family and friends for supportAnd look to Gods Word, the Bible, for comfort and strength. At Isaiah 41:10 God gives us the assurance; Do not be afraid, for I am with you. Do not gaze about, for I am your God. I will fortify you. I will really help you. I will really keep fast hold of you with my right hand of righteousness. Take comfort Jehovah God and His Son Christ Jesus are always ready to support you. John 5:21, 28,29; Matthew 5:5. My deepest condolences.

To the Shafer family: I am so sorry for your loss. Kurt was such a unique person and he will live on in our hearts.

"Any Day Now I Shall Be Released" May Kurt live happily in your hearts and memories. We are thinking of you both and look forward to helping you heal. Peace and love.

To the family of this precious child I am so sorry for your tragic loss. Although I do not know your family personally, I am all too familiar with the pain and confusion you are facing. I am a bereaved parent of four years. As you are able, there is a lifeline for those of us on this journey. Compassionate Friends is a group of bereaved parents that has truly been my source of survival. We meet twice a month, not as a therapy group just those who fully understand and offer hope. Our main number is 919-833-4022. Please call.

The news of Kurt's death fills us with great sadness. Our thoughts are with Barbara, Pete, Jeff, Nicole, and Nadia.