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Joyce Femia Nelson

April 19, 1946 - October 12, 2021

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Obituary For Joyce Femia Nelson

The Memorial Service will be streamed live and can be viewed by clicking the following links: YouTube - Joyce Femia Nelson Facebook - Joyce Femia Nelson Joyce Femia Nelson, 75, died at home in Raleigh, NC on October 12, 2021. She was a graduate of Morehead High School in Morehead City, NC. She went on to earn a Bachelor’s in English Education from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill and a master’s in education from East Carolina University in Greenville, NC.

She began her long life of leadership and service at the state president of the FBLA (Future Business Leaders of America) while still in high school. After earning her degree from UNC-CH, she began her teaching career in Morehead City, NC. She taught high school English for 44 years, 37 of which were spent at Enloe High School in Raleigh. During her tenure, she taught in a prison high school equivalency program called Redirection; helped implement AP and IB programs at multiple schools; shaped the English department as department head; mentored many other teaching professionals at her school and others; and shaped thousands of students’ lives through her teaching. She always worked to be better at her profession, both by learning on her own and by continuing education. For more than a decade, she graded AP exams nationally and used that experience to help her own students perform better on the AP exam.

While Joyce’s passion was teaching, she was a multitalented person and professional. While living in the Philippines, Joyce was the host of her two television shows called Nepa Notes and A Woman’s Corner. Nepa Notes detailed events on Subic Bay’s base and the Subic Naval Complex. A Woman’s Corner was an interview show where she interviewed community members about a variety of topics. She did this will simultaneously teaching at the Brig (military base correctional facility) on Subic Bay.

In her last year of teaching, Joyce taught remotely while fighting stage four colorectal cancer. She was engaged with her students in a completely new way of learning, and she adjusted like a champ while fighting this difficult battle with cancer. Joyce always gave her students her absolute best, and the last year was no exception. She retired from her 44-year career on September 1, 2021.

In October of 2021, she was honored with the Order of the Long Leaf Pine. This prestigious award, which is North Carolina’s highest honor, is awarded to those who have made significant contributions to the state and their communities through their exemplary service and exceptional accomplishments. In her four + decades of teaching, Joyce made a significant impact on the state of North Carolina, and her work in the classroom left NC stronger and with a more educated workforce.

In her free time, Joyce enjoyed spending time with friends and family, including her beloved grandchildren Lauren and Ryan. She traveled extensively throughout the US and overseas, including trips to Maine, Hawaii, Hong Kong, Singapore, Taiwan, China, and much of Europe. She took golf and riding lessons and enjoyed both, and she was a voracious reader and a talented artist. She loved a good meal and a strong coffee, and a meal out with friends and fellow educators was the pinnacle of her week. She adored fresh cut flowers, and the flowers generously given by her wonderful friends brightened the last weeks of her life significantly. The beach was her happiest place, and she could nosh like a champ on a delicious Carteret County shrimpburger.

She is survived by her husband, Daniel Nelson to whom she was married for 53 years and was with for 61. She is also survived by daughters Angela Nelson Kalo and Elizabeth Nelson (Jackson S. Jones), sons David Nelson and Christopher Nelson, and grandchildren Lauren and Ryan Kalo. She is also survived by siblings Ann Femia DelTatto (Gene), John Femia (Beverly), Dee Jaye Femia (Charles), and Mike Femia (Debby), great aunt Dolores Schmidt, and many beloved nieces, nephews, and cousins. She was preceded in death by her parents, Dominic and Geraldine Femia.

A Memorial Service to honor and remember Joyce will held on Saturday, October 15, 2022 at 1:00 pm at Renaissance Funeral Home, located at 7615 Six Forks Road, Raleigh, NC. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Raleigh Fine Arts Society, where Joyce’s students consistently won top honors in the Literary Contest category. Condolences and life tributes may be sent to the family at adn1569@gmail.com

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15 Oct

Memorial Service

01:00 PM

Renaissance Funeral Home 7615 Six Forks Road Raleigh, NC 27615 Get Directions »
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  • October 15, 2022

    Blessed to have been one of her students and also to have had the opportunity to reconnect with her many years later (thanks, social media!). She believed in my creative and intellectual potential; I was an insecure teenager, unsure of my place in the world, who sought answers in literature and writing. As an extraordinary and devoted educator, she helped provide a path forward for me and many others.

  • October 15, 2022

    Thinking of you all during this difficult time. She was an amazing mother, friend, teacher, wife and so much more to so many. I had her as a teacher in high school and throughly enjoyed her teaching me. Sincerely, Julie Ewell and family

  • October 15, 2022

    Joyce was first my mentor and then she was my beloved friend. For my first eight years in education, Joyce served as my department chair, and what I learned about leadership and support was largely due to her influence. I have countless visions of Joyce moving swiftly down the halls of Enloe, as she always moved with purpose, and in her younger days, with great passion and conviction. Energy swirled around her. In the year prior to her death, my friends and I were blessed to have weekly online visits with Joyce (under the guise of PLTs), even through the summer, during which she continued to assuage our stress and anxiety over the state of both the macrocosm of education and the inferno microcosm of our school, with a wry sense of humor and an unerring ability to cut through all of the nonsense. She did all of the latter while fighting the horrible cancer. Joyce expressed her love without reserve, and she spend thousands of hours not only counseling her students, but counseling us. She did not suffer fools. Also, because of Joyce, my students regularly participate in the Raleigh Fine Arts short story contest, and many have been encouraged to continuing honing their creative voices through finding success there. I wish now that I were gifted with more time outside of Enloe with Joyce, as much of the time I had with her was in that institution, and I feel cheated of my dear friend and the time I was hoping to spend. I took her ongoing presence, love and support for granted. I send my love to her beautiful family--she loved you all more than you can know, and she was so very proud of her wonderful children and her amazing grandchildren. --Lisa M. Covington

  • October 10, 2022

    Joyce and I shared many of our thoughts and philosophies about education. We really enjoyed those chats, even if at times we disagreed. We always left the table smiling, chuckling and/or encouraging each other. She had strong opinions but also great respect! I loved her for that...truly an individual yet a lover of community. Thanks for sharing your life with us Joyce...now you rest.

  • September 28, 2022

    Joyce Nelson was an excellent teacher and an amazing woman! We taught together at Enloe High and I felt she was an inspiration to teachers and students alike. My son, Kevin Woolard, was so blessed to have her in AP English. She inspired him to achieve so much and increased his interest and knowledge in literature an incredible amount. She cared so much for each and every student in her classes! Her spirit lives on as an inspiration to all of us so fortunate to know her, work with us or be in her classes!

  • September 26, 2022

    Ms. Nelson was the first English teacher to get through to me as to why I should actually enjoy literature and writing. I never earned an A before her class, but she inspired me to put in the work in my senior year, and it made my life richer. I read classic books because she made me enjoy the process, even well after her class. I wrote poetry because I loved it. And now, a couple decades later, I've become a lawyer, and actually enjoy the reading and writing involved. I'm a better person because of her, and I hope those who miss her can find the comfort they need.

  • September 24, 2022

    Thanks for being an amazing educator and friend.

  • September 24, 2022

    Dan and Family, Though it has been nearly a year since Joyce's passing, it may seem like a day to all of you. What a remarkable life she led, a legacy that lives on in all of you, her friends and the thousands of students whose lives she helped transform. You remain in our prayers. Fred and Susan Moore

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