You were here for every phone call, every move, every bad relationship, weekly dinners, weekly drinks, our favorites being hibachi, Mediterranean and Mexican. Our go to drink a frozen pina colada. Neither of us really like frozen drinks either. You taught me patience, love, empathy and strength. You were the support beams of our family. Listening to my work stories, letting me leave the dogs there if need be, giving relationship or friendship advice. Up until the night before you left this earth. you were my strength when I couldn't find any in myself. I will feel the loss of you every day for the rest of my life. You took on the role of a grandmother so beautifully. The way that I feel is unimaginable. I know your loss will be mourned by many. You left everyone with the best memories, which makes it harder to know we cannot create any more with you. I will forever cherish time spent in your living room, my weekends spent with you. I will continue being the best person that I can be. For you. I will be patient, kind and considerate. I will bite my tongue for you. I will love my dogs extra for you. I will love harder for you. I only wish I had one more phone call, one more dinner, one more drink, one more weekend. I love you. I know you are still here. I feel your presence. I see you in the beautiful red cardinals and white butterflies.

I'm having trees planted in her honor. Trees are enduring like the memory of Betsy will be. I will miss her forever.

Betsy was a cherished member of our small community and we enjoyed her company and conversation while walking her dog. She was taken far too early and will be missed. Warmest regards to the entire family at this difficult time.