Alexander Plavocos

March 20, 1947 - February 01, 2025

Obituary For Alexander Plavocos

Alex Plavocos lived a full and joyous life, defined by his devotion to family, his generosity of spirit, and his desire to make the world a better place. The son of first-generation Greek immigrants, Alex carried the lessons of legacy, hard work, and gratitude for life’s many blessings with him always.

On February 1, 2025, Alex passed away peacefully with his loving wife Judy by his side. Theirs was a love story that spanned decades, beginning in high school in Syracuse, N.Y., continuing through college, and culminating in a marriage that stood as an inspiration to all who knew them.

With a keen, inquisitive mind focused on problem-solving, Alex was at the forefront of the digital revolution. He earned a bachelor’s degree in computer science from the State University of New York at Potsdam in 1969, followed by a master’s degree from the University of Dayton. His successful career in the software industry spanned both large conglomerates and small start-ups, with roles ranging from software developer to marketing executive. He retired from SAS in 2015.

Alex’s greatest joy was his family. A devoted husband, father, brother, uncle and Papou, he delighted in bringing loved ones together. With his signature spreadsheets in hand, he orchestrated big, boisterous gatherings, making sure everyone had a bed to sleep in, food to eat, and fun activities in which to engage and connect.

Alex’s generous spirit extended far beyond his own family. His door was always open to those in need – whether offering a place to stay, a listening ear, or thoughtful counsel. Endlessly patient, he was a trusted confidant who remained steady and perceptive, even in times of crisis. He also dedicated himself to his community, serving as church council president for Good Shepherd Church of Raleigh, N.C., and providing comfort to those facing hardship as a Stephen Minister. Always a good Samaritan, he quietly lent a helping hand to neighbors, whether through HOA leadership or small but meaningful acts of kindness.

Alex’s happiest moments included cheering on the Syracuse Orange and his granddaughter’s soccer games, canoeing on Falls Lake, dancing at big fat Greek weddings, double scoops of ice cream and movie dates with Judy.

Over more than five decades together, Alex and Judy built a life filled with love, laughter, faith and resilience. Their journey took them from New York to Ohio, New Jersey, and North Carolina, forming lifelong friendships at every stop along the way.

Alex’s legacy lives on through his children, Adam Plavocos (Michelle) and Alison Brenton (Brett) and grandchildren Olivia Brenton, Sienna Brenton, Ana Plavocos and Tyler Potter. He is survived by his beloved wife Judy, brother Spencer Plavocos (Marie), and 13 nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents Sutter Plavocos and Stella (Papageorge) Plavocos, and brother George Plavocos.

In lieu of flowers, a gift in Alex’s memory can be made to Good Shepherd Lutheran Church in the name of Alexander Plavocos.

A Memorial Service and reception will be held March 1 at 11 a.m. at Good Shepherd Lutheran Church, 7000 Creedmoor Road, Raleigh, NC 27613.

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March 01, 2025

Jeanne Clark

Uncle Alex- thinking of the immeasurable ways you encouraged and mentored and openly shared your challenges. You were always there through all of life's ups and downs. You taught so many how to live a fulfilled life, and I promise we will share these lessons with the generations that follow. May you rest in peace with your brothers and family who left their mark before you. Your light will shine within us for decades to come!
February 27, 2025

James Hiepler-Hartwig

I worked for Alex in my time at SAS. He was a great man of faith, hope and love. I am blessed to have known him. God's peace be with family and friends as we fondly remember how he touched our lives! Jim Hiepler-Hartwig
February 24, 2025

Alison Harding

We are so sorry for this very tragic loss. Papou was always so kind and loving to our family and we will always remember his fierce dedication to his family. Sending love and strength to the entire family.
February 24, 2025

Joe and Ginny Coleman

Our deepest sympathy goes out to Judy and her family for the loss of a dear friend and neighbor. Alex was a loyal ROMEO with a very outgoing and warm personality. We will all miss him. Additionally, his passion for his Orangemen is legendary. May God bless you and your family. Judy; we are here for you. Joe and Ginny Coleman
February 24, 2025

Barb Anthony

I was so very fortunate to have worked alongside Alex at SAS. His positive attitude, sense of humor and genuine sincerity made a real difference to our team. Alex was more than just a colleague; he was a friend and I'll cherish the wonderful memories we shared over the years. With deepest sympathy, I remember Alex fondly. -Barb Anthony
February 21, 2025

Doug Austin

Judy, I was shocked to hear about Alex. I have many fond memories of activities at Good Shepherd and your Via de Cristo weekend. God's Peace. Doug Austin
February 12, 2025

Beverly Brown

My deepest condolences to Alex's family and friends. I so enjoyed working with him on a big marketing project years ago and count it as one of my high points of my years at SAS. His humor and wisdom were unmatched and I have missed him since his retirement. Farewell, my friend.
February 11, 2025

Rick Hartmann

So sorry for your loss, Judy, Alex was one of the good guys! Rick Hartmann, Houston, TX
February 10, 2025

Nancy Keating

Dear Judy and family. The world has lost a wonderful person. Hank and I were privileged to have known him. Love, Nancy and Hank Keating.